[Gucci hoop earrings, Black cashmere scarf]
I am not the one to kiss and tell, I treat everything like a vault. When it’s bought I own it, when a friend tells me a secret it’s forgotten and when I work it’s public.
I acknowlege my personal situations either because of the un-spoken rule in Hollywood that crisis calls for statement or someone of special interest speaks in a very unflattering/un-called for manner in a very public way- “I know a secret and now you will know too.”
Very recently E! network did a fabulous “Where are they now” special with the content being ABC’s The Bachelor and past Bachelorettes. In the docu type program, E! interviews all past rose givers about their present lives, but for some odd reason my ex-fiance decided to veer off track and speak on his past and not present.
Matt Grant tells E! that he regrets giving the final rose to myself and I was way too short for him. As I listen to Matt trash me on national television I don’t understand why he’s saying this as if there was bad blood between us. We ended very amicably and I have never answered a question about Matt Grant since we split.
Not the case for my EX. Matt milks his Bachelor experience whenever he can and is always trying to give a shock value type of answer so his name will stay in the press. What I don’t understand is why Matt hasn’t finally confessed that he is gay and the very first Gay Bachelor. Matt, your confession would be more press worthy than trying to ride my coattails. I am happily married so let it go. If only ABC would let him tell the truth about his sexuality, all parties involved would win.
scorpio-sdlr
ahahahahaha what a jerk, too short???
you are amazing and your life is fabulous!
You are so cute like beyond cute. I love your personality and I loved your show. I was totally addicted. Im so glad I found your site- I love reality bloggers and totally love the dirty.com but its also cool to have a girl as cute as you just being cool. I can see why Nik married you. He is a very lucky man! I am on your site like all day reading all your material. So funny but you make valid points as well. Take care gorgeous! XoXo
Good job SDLR! Thanks for this post…. finally! “Too short” = no dick. Matt = Gay limey bastard!
Did you know he was gay the whole time? Or can you spill it how you found out? Also, what is your take on Jake? Is he batting for Matt’s team?
HAHAHA!!! So good.
I saw that reunion special, and Matt’s remarks only made him look very, very bad. I asked why you weren’t interviewed and my husband said ” Because you are a class act.” I agree.
PS I never saw your Bachelor season. I know you from my husband’s comment (see above,) and now your website – which I am loving! Keep up the good work.
obviously not much of a class act if she just attempted to out someone. thats pretty serious. should have taken the high road and didnt let em see her sweat.
dude, SHE HAS TAKEN THE HIGH ROAD FOR YEARS now! we all have our limits and need to put a stop to bullies–even ladies like Shayne-so Matt, I hope this shuts your mouth! move on, let it go, get famous by something else!
maybe i was a little harsh. i must admit i have never watched a bach series and really dont know anything about any of it, including the interview, so im just going off of what i read here. ive really enjoyed this site but was put off by what i read in this post, so my particular perspective is from someone who is just discovering shayne lamas. my opinion, from an emerging fan, is to let matt hang himself by looking like a fool. i wouldnt know or care about any of this if she hadnt mentioned it. outing someone is a huge invasion of privacy, whether or not they “deserve” it. she seems too classy and fun to stoop to his level.
actually she is NOT classy. if he is gay, then there is NO DOUBT she knew right away/the whole time. but why did she stay on the show?? for all this “fame” she is now experiencing. she used him and used the show. she went on for a reason, and that is NOT classy. otherwise, NOBODY would know who she is. she did not take the bachelor seriously, it was all a plan. just admit it shayne.
for sure, you are a Scorpio
Classic. Love it and love you!!!
I think Shayne is fabulous and strangely I agree with almost everything she types. True story…I myself am a fashion diva and a lot of my friends ask me the “do’s and dont’s”. We share similar taste too. Keep up the good work honey. This blog give me a smile daily.
xo
well said N! I agree 100%. Shayne I love you, you’re awesome!
He deserved that…
I saw that too, & he is a real DOUCHE. I used to think he was hot, but his trashy comments about you make him FUGLY.
Love it fellow Scorpio
From a 5’2″ Scorpio – I’m with you girl. Screw this guy, he needs to be honest with himself before he’ll ever be happy. Don’t waste your time worrying about him or the trash he throws your way.
Scorpio and aquarius is always lust at first sight. nik’s libra ex was likely too detached. you clearly bring the fighting spirit he craves. don’t ever agree with him. would ruin everything.
What a jerk he is!!Talk about integrity!!!!!
I’m a scorpio and my husband is a virgo and he’s brought amazing balance and calm into my life… Also he’s 6’3″ and I’m barely 5’1″ so I call bull shit to a guy dumping a girl over height… If your ex were smarter he would realize sex is better b/c dynamite comes in small packages… Take care of you Shayne, I really love the website.
Scorpios unite lol Matt is such an jackass! I love this site so much. It’s a mix of the dirty but with a classy feminine touch
Keep up the good work <3
Maybe Matt & Jake can hook up. Oh wait on second thought Jake is also a foot and a half shorter than him. LOL!
lol Zing!
I love you Shayne and Nik too! But why did you out him? I dont know about that, so were you in on it or did you find out later on? Thats a pretty big statement so I hope you do back it up, otherwise it would look petty for you to trash him just because he called you short. You should have just let it go.
I agree with Eve.
WAIT!!!!! HUH????? WHAT???? MATT IS GAY????? WOW!!!!
YOU NEVER TELL ME ANYTHING….
Every rose has its thorn.
the only lack of class here is you, outting him on your blog? Tacky.
OMG. I just dont beleive it. He’s a guy? *speechless*
LOL…this person is NOT a class act…she is media whore…famous…no one knows who she is…high road…”outing” someone is FAR from the high road…she is a joke and totally FAKE!
The fact that you never answered a question about him and always took the high road shows that you are a much better person than him. Maybe someday he will have the guts to come out of the closet too!
Sorry Shayne for spelling your name wrong in the last post.