Q: Hey Nik, I know you don’t do the “ask Nik” section anymore but I’m reaching out for advice because you’re always dead on… I’m 28, I just ended a 2 year relationship with a guy last night who I just found out cheated.  Problem is, we moved in together (stupid) 3 weeks ago in L.A.  I don’t know whether to move back to the bay area, or stay in LA, find a job here quickly and have him move out?  He said he would move out and leave me with everything we just bought.  I’m torn and confused. My parents have a house in the bay area so I could go there for a while but I think there might be more opportunity in LA.  Either way I have to start over but I’m glad I’m done with that douchebag.  Where are all the good guys Nik? Will I even find one in LA? Congrats on the baby, I’m so envious of what you and Shayne have.  You guys are both very blessed. By the way, I got +2s in July and I have you to thank for influencing my decision.  Thanks Nik.

A: Move back to the bay. Communicative family is the only constant in life that will always love and support you. Chasing affection in LA is like asking the devil for a copy of the bible. I always tell people how much I hate LA because it kills heart and confidence. Find yourself back home and stop forcing what you think you deserve.- nik

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